Threads

Finding the Threads

Reconnection, identity and the stories that sit between the records. Finding the Threads is a narrative-informed approach to exploring reconnection, identity, Country, movement and the gaps that can exist within Aboriginal family stories.

When gaps become stories

Sometimes those gaps can become individual stories.

Finding the Threads creates space to step outside the disconnection story and become curious about what happened around it. It brings together narrative practice, historical context, records, Country, community knowledge and reflection to explore the threads that remained — including those colonisation, removal, displacement and Western systems made harder to see.

"I don't know enough."
"I'm disconnected."
"There are too many missing pieces."
"I should already know this."

Looking differently

Reconnection isn't about filling every gap — or finding one document that tells someone who they are.

It can mean:

  • Understanding movement as survival rather than simply disconnection
  • Hearing stories held by family and community
  • Understanding what was happening on Country at the time
  • Returning to places
  • Looking differently at records
  • Noticing what knowledge, relationships and connections survived

The resource

Finding the Threads Guide & Reflection.

A supported space to explore a person's own journey of reconnection — bringing together practical ways of tracing information with narrative reflection, creating space to think about not only what is found, but what those discoveries mean to the person.

01

Tracing the threads

Country, birth places, movement, records, archives, stories and community knowledge.

02

Understanding what happened around them

Placing movement alongside colonisation, missions, removals, exemption systems, foster care and other historical and systemic forces.

03

Stepping outside the disconnection story

Exploring stories such as “not knowing enough,” “not belonging” or “being disconnected” — and becoming curious about what contributed to them.

04

Re-authoring connection

Noticing survival, resistance, relationships, knowledge and connections that continued despite disruption.

Request the Guide & Reflection

The Guide & Reflection is available by request, so the resource can be shared with context around its purpose and intended use.

For organisations

Bring Finding the Threads to your organisation.

Finding the Threads can be delivered as a one-day professional learning workshop for organisations wanting to strengthen practice around identity, reconnection and disrupted family stories.

The training isn't about teaching professionals to become experts in somebody else's identity. Instead, it explores how workers can walk alongside people in ways that recognise the person, their family and community as the knowledge-holders of their own stories.

One-Day Organisational Training — tailored to your organisation, workforce and practice context.

The training can explore

  • The Finding the Threads approach
  • Narrative practices for stepping outside stories of disconnection
  • Understanding movement through survival and resistance
  • Reading records alongside historical and colonial context
  • Working respectfully with gaps, contradictions and missing information
  • Country and community knowledge alongside written records
  • Narrative and reflective questioning
  • Practical application within everyday professional practice

Request

Start with a yarn.

01 — Guide & Reflection

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02 — Organisational Training

Important practice note

Finding the Threads is not about proving identity.

It does not determine, validate or decide somebody's Aboriginal identity. It creates space for reconnection, reflection and understanding — while recognising the histories and systems that have contributed to the gaps people may be trying to make sense of.

Healing through story. Strength through connection.

Curious about how Finding the Threads could sit alongside Ngawilyi's other supports?

Ngawilyi Narrative

Healing through story. Strength through connection.

An emerging Aboriginal-owned narrative therapy, mentoring, movement and community organisation, walking alongside children, young people, families and carers. Our Aunties are narrative therapists — blending therapy, mentoring and cultural connection in one consistent relationship.

Your story belongs to you.

Contact

Ngawilyi.project@outlook.com

South Australia

Ngawilyi Narrative is an emerging organisation. Programs are being shaped through community consultation. Expressions of interest and pilot partnerships are now open.

Ngawilyi means "Aunty" in Arabana language. The use of Arabana language and authorisation for this name and program has been provided through Arabana Elders and the Arabana Aboriginal Corporation. We acknowledge the Arabana people and all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the Traditional Owners of the lands on which we live, work and yarn, and pay respect to Elders past and present. Ngawilyi Narrative does not claim cultural authority for other Aboriginal Nations.

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